How has your blushing held you back? Perhaps you did not move up through the ranks at work because of your blushing, afraid to go for interview, not having the confidence to push yourself forward. Or maybe you are chained to a job you hate because the fear of looking for another job is actually more stressful than to stay where you are. How about your social life? Do you find it difficult to meet people?
How can hypnosis and NLP (neuro linguistic programming) help? Because you weren’t born blushing – children under the age of 7 and animals do not blush, it is something that you have learned to do. At the age of 7, children learn right from wrong and blushing which is associated with embarrassment comes from being “caught out” and your mind’s association of redness in the face and feelings of discomfort. When this happens, your mind records how uncomfortable it was for you (for example, to be standing up in the classroom, you do or say something wrong, teacher makes fun of you and the other children are focused on you) and because your sub conscious mind wants to protect you – it makes this so awful for in an attempt for you to avoid situations which will make you uncomfortable! And so the blushing and discomfort heightens and your mind starts to anticipate the blushing, discomfort and what a dreadful time you are going to have.
With hypnosis and NLP, we can re-train, re-wire, re-programme your mind that what was encoded from a child’s perspective is no longer helpful or relevant and we can construct a new future for you. It has specific and focused – the you that you have always wanted to be. Breaking the “in the head” mode and moving forward so that you no longer miss on any opportunities and become fully engaged in life. You can change – as long as the reason for the change is stronger than the need to stay as you are. Hypnosis and NLP are tools that you learn and that can be used in any aspect of your life long after you have left me. Practicing the techniques makes the new connections stronger.
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